The Marine’s Letters Make It Home

My sister and I met Louis’s daughter and grandson for lunch yesterday. Both of them resemble him. I felt relief to finally hand over this important part of their dad and grandfather’s history to his family.


They left us to take the notebook to share with her daughter, Louis’s grandaughter. Today, they will share the letters with his widow, Linda. Then take them home for her brother and mother to read.

Louis’s grandson and daughter.

The circle can be completed without me. I have done my part to make it happen. I did this for my mother, who saved the letters for over sixty years.

Dottie

I did it for a young, lonely marine who wrote so beautifully about his first years in the military and service overseas and then came back to a different world.

Louis in 1950

Most of all, I did it out of respect for first loves. When hearts do what they do without reserve, fear or reason. Before things get guarded, complicated and weighted.

The story of Dottie and Louis is sweet. I am not sure how or why it ended. We got conflicting stories from mama due to dementia. My mom went on to marry my wonderful father. They stayed together over sixty years until his death in 2020.

But that’s another story.

FLOW

Love Now

I am home again. There could not be a more glorious morning. I am wandering my gardens in my pajamas, as usual. Birds are singing and flowers are blooming. Nature is partying right here in my yard.


My family is meeting at the home of our much-loved uncle this afternoon. He has chosen quality over quantity in his cancer journey. I support this decision with my whole, broken heart.


My urgent message to you is, “Love now.” Do not wait to visit or pick up the phone. Do not hesitate to say, “I love you.” Give longer hugs to more people. Life is in constant flux. What is blooming this morning will be setting seed soon.

I encourage you to include yourself in this loving. Do things that make your heart sing. You are not immortal. Time slips away while you are busy.

In the words of John Lennon 

“Life is what happens while you’re busy making other plans”

Make a good plan, get into good trouble and go love somebody.

FLOW