Here but not Here

| Flower Roberts

I am home for a funeral. Another precious friend is gone. Another lonely widow is left.

Being here is important, but I am not really here.

My mind is at Mama’s house. It is slowly being dismantled.

Things are being moved and polished and researched and assessed.

We are finding little treasures and surprises. These are being set aside on the desk.

We want to be sure that our heirlooms do not get mixed in with things with no history.

I am washing Daddy’s clothes. I missed a pocket containing jelly beans and tissues and screws.

Our lives are being played backwards as we struggle to move forward.

I ask Mama about things we find, but she cannot remember much.

She was the family’s memory. Not any more.

I am here watering my neglected plants and doing laundry. No plants have died… yet.

It seems that there has been a strange shift in my values. I must be careful.

No stone will be left unturned. All drawers will be emptied. All shelves cleared. Closets opened.

I must be careful about what I choose to carry from my past into my future.

I will choose this load with caution, as I carry what is there to here.

Will home be here? Will I? Hard choices must be made. It is time to decide what should be kept.

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Favorite Bunny Photos

| Flower Roberts

I am staying at Mama’s now, so we added the internet so I can work from here.

I came across these photos of Barley and Charlotte while researching Daddy’s shop equipment.

I used some of these in a post entitled ‘Busy and Not Busy.’ These two bunnies kept me busy! They were a lot of work, but also a lot of fun.

Why was Barley covered in dirt?
It seems that Charlotte had decided to dig a hole beside him. Barley had decided to stay put.
She was usually moving and he was usually not moving.

Charlotte: Busy, Barley: Not Busy

I miss these two. Now, I am too busy to take care of any pets.

My garden is surviving without me thanks to my neighbor and family watering plants during these HOT days.

Mama is doing well. Sis and I are sorting 65 years of belongings. We are keeping the treasures that bring back the memories. I will post on this occasionally.

This is a tough part of life’s journey.

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Some Costa Rica Photos

| Flower Roberts

I will post on plants in future posts.

It was an amazing adventure.

The link to the place we stayed is below. It was wonderful.

https://www.thelanktuary.com/

Home

https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/740793708702267436?source_impression_id=p3_1690163431_X0yvPSfCfhIXLCf6

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A Head Full of Bees

| Flower Roberts

I love the scent of Cardoon blooms,but I must be careful as I sniff them. Each tufted head is full of bees.

They love wiggling around in the purple, mop-head blooms.

I spotted some beetles in the fray.

This plant has huge leaves, lovely buds and irresistible blooms.

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Pineapple Lilies

| Flower Roberts

If you want a group of plants that makes a quiet statement try some Pineapple Lilies.

There are several types of Eucomis, but this on thrives best in my North Carolina garden.

I purchased this Eucomis from one of my favorite places on Earth, Brookgreen Gardens. This South Carolina attraction has both sculpture and gardens. It is a must see. They host fabulous events.

https://www.brookgreen.org/

https://wordpress.com/post/floweralley.org/1380

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Hibiscus in Custody

| Flower Roberts

Last year my four hibiscus plants were out in the yard around the fire bowl in big pots. I planned on doing the same this summer. The hungry deer had different ideas. One hibiscus plant died over the winter, so I cannot blame them for that. The other was brutally eaten beyond any chance of recovery. The surviving two had to be wheeled into protective custody inside the fence on hand trucks.

I guess they will spend the remainder of their lives behind bars.

The peach double seems to have recovered rather nicely.

The red had more limbs removed , but is finally blooming.

Hibiscus blooms are even lovely from the back.

I am glad I was home to rescue these lovely plants from our hungry herd.

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Happy Hoyas

| Flower Roberts

Hoyas must thrive on rain and neglect because that’s what they have gotten this summer. The plants have more blooms than ever.

I love how shiny the surface looks.

The complex structure looks like an umbrella underneath.

I hung these in my workshop over the winter. No trimming. The blooms emerge from the trailing tips of the vines.

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Spider to Fly

| Flower Roberts

This is a striking daylily. It is larger than most and the colors are vivid.

I was going to move ‘Spider to Fly’ because it was too close to the steps.

I have changed my mind. I like to be able to see it from above and get close to it.

Spider to Fly is a new favorite.

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